What do you do when a patient says, “I don’t care about goals—I just want less pain”?
This moment shows up every day in pain care—and how you respond can either reinforce stuckness or help someone get their life back.

In this episode, Mark Kargela breaks down why pain reduction isn’t wrong—but often incomplete—and how clinicians can navigate this conversation without invalidating the patient or taking away hope.

You’ll learn:
• Why pain reduction alone can narrow a patient’s life
• Red flags that someone is stuck in the pain reduction loop
• How pain scores function as communication—not thermometers
• How to use “creative hopelessness” without confrontation
• Ways to pair short-term relief with long-term valued living
• How to reframe goals when patients fear movement and activity

This episode is for clinicians who want practical, psychologically informed tools to manage complex pain conversations—without abandoning pain relief or overstepping their role.

If you work with persistent pain, this discussion will sharpen how you listen, how you frame goals, and how you help patients move forward—even when pain doesn’t fully disappear.

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👉 Explore the links below for related resources and deeper learning.
Kenneth Craig Paper on Social Communication Model of Pain - https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2009-01391-003

A biopsychosocial formulation of pain communication - https://discovery.ucl.ac.uk/id/eprint/1328232/

Creative Hopelessness Guide - https://drive.google.com/file/d/1TWRW9bT2QVu9PxoQOGWCcbcR-Bqpy7L3/copy

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